Influencer goes viral after sharing a message from a man who didn’t pay for their first date

After revealing why she wouldn’t go on a second date with a man, one influencer sparked a conversation about modern first date etiquette.

Khristina, who has over 14 million likes on TikTok and only 1,000 followers on Instagram, has shared online what she will not tolerate when dating.

We all know that modern dating has brought a whole new set of etiquette questions.

Do you text after the first date? When should you add each other on social networks? If he only wants to travel on Snapchat, does that mean he secretly has a wife?

Christina has made the coffee date question go viral. Should you always offer to pay for your date’s coffee?

The influencer shared a text exchange she had with a man she was on a first date with – revealing he wasn’t prepared to take on a flat white.

“So you’re canceling the date because I didn’t pay for your coffee on the first date?” asked the man.

“Yes,” she replied.

“Well, you definitely have an attitude problem,” he wrote.

“I have no problem staying. You have a problem with my attitude, which is not my problem,” she argued.

Khristina posted the exchange just two days ago and it has already garnered over 500,000 views on TikTok.

The influencer added that “no one should do anything they don’t want to,” but that doesn’t mean she should continue dating a guy who isn’t prepared to pay for a $5 coffee.

She argued that because he “asked” her on the date it was “kind” for him to offer to pay and when he didn’t, she wasn’t impressed.

“I think it’s a nice gesture from a man. It’s just attractive,” she wrote.

The exchange of texts started a great conversation about the ethics of money during the meeting.

“Why should he pay?” asked one person.

Almost all comments agreed that Christina not bothering to go on a second date with the guy was the right thing to do.

Many people stated that offering to buy someone a coffee is “the bare minimum” and more about the gesture than the actual cost.

Someone else called the act “outrageous” and another pointed out that offering to buy someone a coffee isn’t the right thing to do on a date, but the normal thing to do for friends, family or , yes, even for love interests. .

Another argued that a simple “gesture” says so much about a person and the fact that he wouldn’t offer wasn’t a great sign.

“Not paying for the coffee is weak,” complained another.

“He has a problem with your standards,” someone else pointed out.

“That was a great response,” cheered another.